prostitution. The discussion document is available on the South African Law Reform Commission website (SALRC), for those who are interested.
The discussion document presents four options for the law concerning prostitution:
- Prostitution is completely illegal (as it is presently)
- Prostitution is partially illegal (where it will be a criminal act for men to use prostitutes and running brothels will be criminal, pimping women will be criminal, but the prostitutes themselves will not be criminals)
- Prostitution is completely legal
- Prostitution will be regulated by government
But for me, the thought of legalising prostitution is completely alarming. For moral reasons, including the fact that prostitution is primarily the brazen exploitation of poor women. People sometimes try to sell this as being about freedom of choice for women, being able to choose how to use their bodies. I might take that seriously if prostitutes were middle class women who decided to have a go at prostitution because it allows them to make some extra money to spoil themselves with, and still be at home with their children during the day. But thats a ludicrous thought, isn't it? Because women don't WANT to be prostitutes. No little girl grows up wanting to be a prostitute (unless she has watched Pretty Women, and then she actually wants to be a prostitute so that Richard Gere will come and save her from prostitution.)
Prostitutes end up being prostitutes primarily because they don't see any other options for providing for themselves or their families.
A friend of mine grew up in what I suppose is a semi-red-light district in my home town. She says that she was befriended by the son of a nearby brothel owner. Looking back at it now, she says she suspects it was a strategic move on the part of the brother owner, trying to draw her in. Thankfully she moved out of that neibourhood when she was still quite young. Now she is doing a postgraduate degree at university, loving what she is doing, and is one of my heros. Is very involved in education, she works with learner representative councils in township schools. It wouldn't suprise me at all if she ends up being the next minister of education :)
But she could have ended up as a prostitute, had things turned out differently. Isn't that a horrible thought? But if we make prostitution legal, we are saying that it is a legitimate choice. Imagine career counselors in poor schools recommending girls become prostitutes? Imagine them recommending *your* little girl becomes a prostitute? "Well, academics isn't your strong point and you aren't really gifted with people either. You don't have obvious leadership qualities... you aren't gifted with your hands. You aren't sporty. Have you considered prostitution?"
No no no!!!
One argument for legalising prostitution is that because prostitution is illegal, prostitutes are vulnerable to abuse and brutality by policeman. But that is a red herring, to my mind. Corruption in the police force should definitely be dealt with, but that is an issue on its own.
And this issue of legalising prostitution before 2010 - are we inviting foreign men to take advantage of poor South African women?
My first preference would be for the second option above (partially illegal), followed by the first option of prostitution remaining fully illegal.
But the more I read about it, the more angry I get. That we are seriously considering decriminalising prostitution entirely. Even setting up government bodies to regulate prostitution - it is like something out of Terry Pratchett.
I could write more, but let me just leave you with some choice quotes from the discussion document.
The SALRC is inviting comments on the discussion document, closing 30 June. So I encourage you to send in comments. There is an interesting article entitled "Myths and Facts about Decriminalization of Prostitution" on the Family Policy Institute website (here) if you want more information.
Quotes from the Discussion Document:
"Research shows that irrespective of the legal option [options 1,2,3 or 4 above] followed, women and girls in prostitution have a mortality rate 40 times higher than the national average."
"The latter study also found that it is not a job that the prostitutes like doing, or would choose to do should their range of options have been wider."
"Many are school drop-outs from abusive families, often bearing children from
adolescent relationships. Many have kids and grandparents to take care of. They face real financial pressures. But given their backgrounds, their options are limited. They can work as check-out girls at supermarkets; hang up clothing at retail stores; work as domestics; do waitressing; dress hair; sit at home; etc. or they can sell sex."
"The female prostitute has been the social outcast, the male patron has been accepted or ignored. She is visible and denounced, her existence tainted by her activity. He is faceless, a mere ingredient in her offence rather than a criminal in his own right, who returns to respectability after the encounter. In terms of the sexual double standards prevalent in our society, he has often been regarded either as having given in to temptation, or as having done the sort of thing that men do."
"According to this research, men [believe that they] have the absolute right to have their sexual needs met whenever and wherever they want."
"Some responded that all women would have to function as prostitutes in order to stop the institution of prostitution."
"Prostitutes do not view prostitution as a long-term career choice and at some point most prostitutes wish to leave prostitution."
And a quote that made me very sad:
"Nearly 40% of all black prostitutes interviewed had migrated to the major cities from the Eastern Cape."



6 comments:
Well Laura, you place some very compelling argument there but I think this debate of legalising prostitution or not misses the point. At the heart of girls and young ladies resorting to prostitution is the issue of poverty and education.
If our government can fully address the issues of poverty and give its citizens proper education, not this third class education that is reserved for the poor then we will minimise the chances of girls engaging in prostitution as a means to escape poverty.
I totally agree with you.
Thats part of the reason why I think it is so heinous to legalise prostitution, as if legalising prostitution is the solution to the problem. It is like legalising child molestation because we can't deal with the amount of child abuse cases.
Lets address the real problem - poverty, lack of education, people feeling they have no options except things like prostitution and crime.
Lets not fall back on short term so-called-solutions like legalising prostitution, which will only get more young women trapped into these kinds of dangerous and horrible lifestyles.
So our government can ease their consciences and feel they are doing something. But they are actually making things worse. And not addressing the real problem.
(Kindof like AIDS grants, which I know are a sticky issue. But I am hearing again and again and again about people living recklessly intending to get HIV, then letting their cd4 counts drop purposefully so that they can get AIDS grants. That is not the solution!! Its just another case of the government implementing short-term solutions that don't solve anything, and actually make things worse for people!)
Although I agree with most of your points Laura, I honestly just don't think keeping prostitution illegal is going to solve anything. Fact of the matter is that prostitutes are exploited, I used to witness police stopping and taking money from prostitute while I was in first year. My campus is located a few metres from Ponte building in hillbrow, most of my friends' flat were located in berea they befriended some prostitutes and heard horror stories on how exploited they were by cops, pimps, landlords, clients etc. and how they couldn't report the matter to the police because everytime they did so they faced a danger pf being arrested. Granted nobody becomes a prostitute by choice and tackling porvety, education collapse and other forms of social ills will reduce the number of girls resorting to prostitution it won't solve the whole problem there would still be girls from troubled homes who enters the trade by regulating prostitution these girls rights might be somewhat protected.
PS: I'm totally against prostitution but I do realized that we live in a world that has gone sick and so they too deserve to be protected.
I agree Laura, we shouldn’t have prostitutes.
Corruption in the police force should be dealt with, so we can put it out of our minds. Poverty should also be dealt with, so we can put that out of our minds too.
But now, hang on, you do say: “Prostitutes end up being prostitutes primarily because they don't see any other options for providing for themselves or their families.”
You want, forcibly, to prevent them from exercising that option. I don’t suppose you think any significant fraction of them would then end up doing post graduate degrees like your friend. Are you realistic in positing, by implication, such a possibility or anything like it as an alternative?
Your comparison of prostitution with child molestation is the real red herring. Children have no choice where molestation is concerned. And those women who are forcibly inducted into prostitution, or who are abused by clients, would have a better chance of obtaining justice if they were not exposed to criminal charges.
The reality is that corruption in the police force and poverty will both remain. Whatever the law says, prostitution will continue. And if the law makes it illegal you may have a warm feeling, but the resulting abuse will continue and you will bear part of the responsibility.
Would you not do better by dealing with the realities of life rather than by conjuring up a dream world to make yourself feel good?
I'll write a proper response later (while I'm not sitting in a dark lounge unable to see my keyboard!)
But two quick notes:
1) I didn't purposefully compare prostitution to child molestation... did you get that from the story about my friend?
2) On "And if the law makes it illegal you may have a warm feeling, but the resulting abuse will continue and you will bear part of the responsibility... Would you not do better by dealing with the realities of life rather than by conjuring up a dream world to make yourself feel good?"
Funnily, I think of this pretty much exactly the other way around. Legalising prostitution, to my mind, is a way for us to feel we are doing something when at best we are doing nothing, and at worst we are entrenching and legitimizing something terrible.
And "corruption in the police force and poverty will both remain" - nope, I just don't buy that at all. If the problem is police corruption (which it is), let's address police corruption. If the problem is poverty, let's address that. Perhaps the police force will never be 100% ethical, and there will always be poor people. But the levels of corruption and poverty certainly can, and should, be reduced.
I think this is a classic case of focussing on symptoms because the real problems are much more difficult to solve. It is an instant gratification solution, where we can pat ourselves on the back for having beautiful liberal laws. While we are in fact doing no more to solve the actual problems than we were to start with.
And on a side note - the timing of it before 2010 just really undermines the claim that this potential legal change is for the good of prostitutes.
Laura,I saw the exchange between you and Socrates. There is just one thing I would like to comment on and that is the fact that some of the prostitutes don't have any alternatives. You say this and then you say it should not be legal.
Well I actually lived on the streets for a time, and the way it goes is: you either steal, rob, murder, or shoplift, which lands you in prison where you learn to be a better criminal.
I on the otherhand like many gentle and softharted people can not find it in myself to commit crime or to beg. This led me to become a prostitute.
The choice comes in where you take responsibillity for your own life and wear a condom.
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